• Let Things Slide

    What REALLY happens if you let things slide? When you check out of your life?

    Not that much, I found.

    Actually, taking a vacation from being a try-hard was a nice restoring break. (Although I did have to rediscover my fat pants).

    Here’s my late night “Confession.” What happened. Why I stopped caring. Why I let things slide. And what I learned.

    WARNING: FOUL LANGUAGE (I told you it was a confessional.)

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    In Summary:

    Taking a break, letting things slide, or checking out of your life TRULY isn’t a big deal.

    Life goes on.

    Everyone is busy with their own things.

    We all need times of relaxation where we can recharge.

    However, sometimes we don’t let ourselves recharge for a very long time. In this case, a planned break in the future may not do it for you. Instead, you may need to take a break NOW.

    That is what I mean by “checking out of your life.” I mean NOT CARING NOW. Doing things at 50% rather than 100%. Saying no to freaking everything. Resting

    Let things slide when you have nothing in the tank. And I promise, you’ll benefit from it.

    💚

    What happens when YOU let things slide?

    What happens when you let things slide? Have you ever tried this?

    Hop on over to this video post on the Fresh Philosopher YouTube Channel to leave me a comment. Let me know! I need to know. 🙂

    Happy sliding!

    Sincerely,
    Erienne
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  • Keep a Gratitude Journal

    Hey friend… are you looking for a nice gift for someone you care about?

    My suggestion is a gratitude journal!

    Gratitude journals are becoming increasingly popular as part of the self-care movement.

    If you’re new to the idea, allow me to share what the hype is all about! You encourage yourself to grow a positive mindset by listing a few things that you’re grateful for every day (usually 3). That’s it!

    I’m thinking that a gratitude journal would make a nice gift for someone you care about. Here’s the idea:

    1. Write the special person a note sharing the top 3 ways you’re grateful for them. You can put it in a letter, or even on the first page of the journal!
    2. Gift them a nice journal, pen, and pencil pouch. 🙂
    3. Encourage your special someone to use the journal to write down 3 things they are grateful for every day. Or to write whatever they like. 

    (So cute I could cry.)

    I admit I am obsessed with notebooks and pens (and cute little pencil cases!). So here are my personally-curated choices for fun matching sets.

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    ERIENNE’S GRATITUDE JOURNAL, PEN, & CASE PICKS:

    Sweet


    Crisp


    Luxe


    Artistic


    Classy


    Happy Gifting

    I hope my picks inspire you!

    Much love,

    Erienne

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  • Vanquish Your Energy Vampires

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    VIDEO: What are energy vampires and are they even real?

    Energy vampires are people who SUCK!

    They suck out your energy, keeping you in a negative state. They are not actual blood-sucking vampires; just people in your life who drain you (and give nothing back).

    In this video, I talk about the 4 types of energy vampires I’ve encountered. I share how I deal with each one! I also dance around for your entertainment. Please enjoy!

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  • Make a Morning Routine

    What if you could do EVERYTHING you wanted to… every single morning? What if you had an amazing morning routine? That’s the question I asked myself one Sunday.

    I had just finished writing in my journal. I love writing. And I casually thought, “Oh, I’ll do this again tomorrow for sure.” Then it hit me. I wasn’t going to be able to write in my journal tomorrow. Or the next day. I had work. Suddenly, I was suddenly very sad.

    Then I thought, “Why not? Why CAN’T I write in my journal tomorrow? Or do anything else I want?”

    The answer came quickly: Because my mornings “belonged” to work. Duh. My mornings were not my own. They belonged to my job. Along with my energy. My time. My thoughts. And my dreams.

    Screw that!

    As soon as I realized I had this mindset, I decided to change it. So I did. For the next week, I woke up earlier and gave myself writing time. It was lovely! But not only that, it was game-changing. Getting organized before the day begins, packing bag, laptop, and drinking tea

    The Morning Routine Snowball Effect

    Now that I was setting aside time for myself, I started doing a bit more each day to make my mornings enjoyable. I started making myself a nice cup of tea. Then I added breakfast. After a while, I slapped a 10-min meditation session in there. Before I knew it, I had created a morning routine! I’m delighted to present you my “Extra AF Morning Routine.” Because it really is extra. Then, I happily show you my method so you can make one of your own.* *Btw, my goal here is to inspire you to enjoy your life. Not to make you feel inferior. If you don’t do this stuff, cannot do it, or simply don’t want to, that is 100% fine! Like, I want to inspire you to “do you.” Not to be me. So with that in mind, please prepare yourself for some mega morning inspiration!

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    My Morning Routine Checklist

    I have a checklist with each of these items on my phone. I use an app called AwesomeNOTE. I’d say I do about 80% of these every day, roughly in this order. Okay, let’s wake up! 🙂

    1.Remove self from bed

    Yes, I literally have this on my checklist. It can be the hardest part! Plus, it gets me to look at the rest of my list.

    2. Put on pants (2 mins)

    Or a robe or whatever. Some mornings it is so cold, I want to stay in bed FOREVER to keep warm. So I’ll put on sweatpants, a robe, and/or a huge comfy sweater immediately to keep that cozy feeling!

    3. Bathroom

    Nature calls. Or at least it probably should sometimes. (It would be weird to put a time here… so I’m just gonna… leave this blank…)

    4. Brush teeth, scrape tongue, & splash water on face (5 mins)

    Yum, pepperminty freshness! I’m beginning to feel human.

    5. Make lemon tea or lime tea (5 mins)

    Boil some water. Cut a lemon (or lime!) in half. Squeeze juice into a mug, and pour hot water on top. Check button on the list! Apparently, this is super healthy for your innards.

    6. Open curtains (while water boils)

    Heaven let your light shine down!

    A woman meditates on the lake dock at dawn 7. Meditate (10 mins)

    I meditate 10 mins in the morning. Sometimes I use an app. Sometimes just a timer. It feels seriously amazing and is linked to a ridiculous amount of benefits. It reminds me that I’m alive and my energy is MINE.

    8. Light stretch (2 mins)

    After sitting still for 10 mins, you’ll want to stretch. Move whatever feels good! Yawn.

    9. Breathe fresh air (1 min)

    I open up the front door and take a few deep breaths! Sometimes I scare a bird or two… heh.

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    10. Journal & sip tea (30 mins)

    Now it is time for my favorite activity of the day! I sit down with my journal and pens. I write as long as I want to. Usually, my tea is the perfect temperature right now, so I sip it. Sometimes I write only a few sentences, sometimes I write a few pages, and other times I stare out the window. If I don’t use the full time, that’s fine. But I still block it off and respect my precious journal time!

    11. Quick little workout (30 mins)

    I’ll spend no more than 30 mins donning workout clothes, stretching, then doing a quick workout. I’ll go for a 1 mile run or do a couple Blogilates workout videos. Or do yoga from an app (or simply from memory). This is such a nice thing to do for yourself! Your sense of accomplishment will be sky high! Also, it is a hack of “highly successful people.”

    12. Recover and de-sweat (10 mins)

    Stretch and prevent yourself from smelling weird all day 🙂

    13. Put on actual clothes (10 mins)

    I allow myself to enjoy the process of getting dressed, but sometimes I enjoy it too much. So I squash this part after my workout and before food! This prevents me from trying on 1 million outfits, then going with the first one anyway.

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    14. Make breakfast (5 mins)

    Usually, I have pre-made breakfast ready to go. Like homemade granola, granola bars, banana bread, or some overnight oatmeal. Sometimes I’ll make a smoothie. Why do I make breakfast easy? Because I get so hungry I can’t think. Also, I’m expecting this breakfast to give me at least 6 hours of hearty energy, so I go for nutrients.

    15. Eat breakfast (10 mins)

    I challenge you to do nothing but EAT during breakfast. Try it. Don’t look at anything on your phone, don’t read, and don’t listen to a podcast. Instead look at your food. Taste it. Smell it. Enjoy it. Be grateful for it. Go slow. It feels lovely. Don’t you love food? Surprisingly this doesn’t take very long at all but feels like forever (in a delicious food way).

    17. Pick up around the house, water plants, make the bed (10 mins)

    I take a little time to put away my breakfast, clear daily clutter, water a few plants, then make the bed. It feels good to spruce up my space. I’ll pick up only: trash, recycling, shoes, clothes. Very adulting. Don’t get carried away tho (no scrubbing okay?).

    18. Hair and face (10 mins)

    I give myself the chance to enjoy fixing my hair and attending to my precious face. Sometimes I’ll get into my makeup. Some days I decide to simply shine my innate beauty (its pretty bright). Here are my Daily Hacks for Happy Winter Skin!

    19. Pack bag (5 mins)

    Along with important items like keys, wallet, phone, laptop, I take time to pack a water bottle. Maybe a snack. I make sure I have tissues, deodorant, gloves, etc. Any little things I might want or that the season might call for. Very classy.

    20. End of routine!

    Now that I’ve enjoyed my morning thoroughly, my work has permission to begin!

    → → ABSOLUTELY NOT ALLOWED during morning routine (trust me):

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    Benefits of a Leisurely Morning

    Now let’s see how long that took altogether: 145 mins! Oh my! Adding some restroom time and that’s about… 2 1/2 hours.

    Before you freak out, allow me to dissect the time and few reasons why it is worth it: ENJOYMENT & EXTRA ENERGY

    • You will actually WANT to get up and do your favorite things, so there’s no need to account for hitting snooze.
    • You won’t have to experience stress first thing in the morning
    • You’ll be STICKING IT TO THE MAN who says “Your morning energy is MINE wahaha” (I think)
    • I use this routine to manage depression and anxiety symptoms.
    • You will be FULL OF ENERGY and have a super effective day.
    • I did say this was “Extra AF”

    PROVING YOUR TIME IS YOURS

    • You must do many of these things anyway! Like put on clothes, brush your teeth, and pack your bag. Why not track them?
    • Lots of workplaces are flexible with time. So see about beginning your workday a bit later.
    • If you’re a student, maybe you can plan your schedule with this in mind 🙂
    • Entrepreneurs – I bet you have some control over your availability.
    • You can easily cut out the workout and/or cleaning to save time

    So why is it “worth it?” Because you are worth it. And you’ll be worth more today if you energize first thing!

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    How To Make Your Own Morning Routine

    1. Find your anchor. For me, it is writing in my journal. Not only is it the thing that drives me to look forward to morning times, but it is the central, core component of the morning routine. 
    2. Sit down and write out a list to answer the question: “What would I love to do every morning, which brings me joy?”
    3. Write out a second list to answer the question: “What do I really NEED to do every morning?”
    4. Combine the lists and adjust for reasonability (Maybe you can’t go to a cafe in Paris every morning, but I bet you can mimic the ambiance of that experience by making yourself a homemade latte, then sipping it in your dining room while playing cafe music. Why not?).
    5. Estimate times for each item, then calculate total time.
    6. Set your alarm accordingly!
    7. Try this for 5 days in a row (for reasons to NOT TRY IT ONCE THEN GIVE UP, you might enjoy my post How to Set the Bar Low).
    8. After day 5 assess and adjust (I adjust all of the time)!

    In closing, I know this is crazy. I know this routine is huge and extravagant. But you know what? It is amazing. And life-changing. And really not that weird (if you want to conquer life on the regs). 🙂 So make one. Try it. And then tell me what’s on your own crazy list.

    Much love,

    Erienne

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  • Build a Mental Health Kit

    So it’s cold. It’s gray. It’s dark. And I feel lame. Do you ever feel yucky when the weather is bad? What about fully depressed? I sure do. That’s when I open my mental health kit!

    Where’s the Sun?

    Some days, there’s less sunlight than I’d like. I love the sun’s ability to make me feel bright, engaged, open, activated, and tuned-in. So when my bright friend is hidden behind clouds for the *$@%ing fifth day in a row, I start to feel a little puny.

    My cure? Immerse my mind in something.

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    I have a theory that my brain loves the sun because of the type of state it gets me into. An immersive one. One where it is easy to pay attention to and enjoy something for a while. When I’m immersed, I can’t think of anything else.

    So, when I don’t have the sun to help me, I engage in activities that allow my brain to fall into the same deep, engaged state.

    The trick is to find immersive activities. Then actually do one!

    Go back into your memories, and pick out some things that feel great to do! Things that when you do them, you can’t think of anything else. Immersive activities that will truly activate your brain. Here is my winter blues mental health kit!

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    Mental Health Kit

    To help stimulate your noggin, I’ve got a checklist of activities for ya! A mental health kit, if you will. These are things that can activate your brain and uplift your mood. And they’re simple. They are things you might do weekly anyway; things that you probably already have the materials for.

    1. MIND-OCCUPYING TASKS

    Here are some activities guaranteed to take you in:

    • Get out your art supplies and doodle, draw, or paint
    • Organize something (junk drawer, vanity, pantry, etc. – very satisfying)
    • Pre-chop some vegetables (soothing and helpful to your future self)
    • Color in your adult coloring book (I know you have one)
    • Work a puzzle
    • Look at pet memes
    • Knit (okay I don’t know how to knit, but I heard its lit)

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    2. TRANSPORT YOURSELF

    Take your mind to a new place. See different things. Feel different things. Do it actively, not passively.

    • Go for a nature walk (Otherwise known as a nature bath -nature is magical in any season.)
    • Treat yourself to a nice meal at a cute little restaurant (You know, the one that makes you feel like you’re back on that amazing trip)
    • Hit the thrift shop (Go pop some tags baby! Buy a weird kimono for $5 that makes you feel like a goddess. Then send me a pic.)
    • Walk around the block (This is so easy and instantly effective at resetting my mind)
    • Go for a stroll around the mall (Lots of activity, people, and free samples)
    • See a movie in the theater (Pick something weird)
    • Play a video game (Suddenly you can fly and shoot lightning bolts!)
    • Try the free meditation introductory class (You know, the one you always see signs for? It will be AMAZING.)
    • Visualize a beautiful, calm place
    • Plan a dream vacation (Not a realistic vacation)
    • Read a book in Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Romance, or History (Personally, I would never read history. But some people say it’s dope.)
    • Read a story to kids

    3. PLAY WITH YOUR NEUROTRANSMITTERS

    Try drinking a different type of caffeine than your usual. Caffeine works at the neurotransmitter level; new caffeine causes new activity. Drinking it will give you a brain boost (and maybe some antioxidants). I like to have one of these when the sun goes down (and I get sad about it). Just one cup 🙂

    • Green tea (get those antioxidants baby!)
    • Matcha latte (way more antioxidants)
    • Earl Grey tea (You fancy)
    • A piece of dark chocolate and fruit (super yum with raspberries)
    • Espresso (whip your pinkie out!)
    • Chai latte (black tea)
    • Mocha
    • Tip: Do something FUN after you drink this. Not something you hate.

    4. JUMP AROUND

    Time to shock your system awake. Shake it up. Shake it off. Whatever, just move your body (vigorously, baby).

    • Sing an Alicia Keys song loudly
    • Dance party in the kitchen
    • Go for a quick jog (wearing your brightest workout clothes)
    • Watch dance vids on YouTube (I’m obsessed with JoJo Gomez’s choreography)
    • Do yoga for 20 mins (I just do 10 sun salutations then lay in corpse pose)
    • Workout to one little video
    • Try a new dance class (I HIGHLY recommend African dance)
    • Watch a sporting match or reality show that makes you get up and yell at the screen

    5. EAT SOMETHING THAT FEELS GOOD

    If you feel lousy, maybe your sugar levels are too low, or you’ve been eating junk? Fresh, delicious, genuinely nourishing food helps me feel like a functional human again. These always make me feel better:

    • Berry smoothie (antiox alert!)
    • Hummus (mmm… lemon & garlic is my fave)
    • Granola bars (these homemade ones might change your life)
    • Chili (I feel emotional just thinking about chili)
    • A juicy piece of fruit
    • Beans (how are these so satisfying?)
    • A few carrots (v classy)
    • A nice tall glass of water

     6. BODY KINDNESS

    Aww. When I feel low, some TLC feels wonderful. You probably need to do one of these right now:

    • Take a long, hot shower
    • Rub your feet on a tennis ball
    • Rub your hands
    • Head massage!
    • Clip your nails (if that’s not self-care, I don’t know what is)
    • Moisturize your skin (Check out my blog post Winter Mental Health Trick: Keep Dry Skin Happy for 10 amazing and weird tips)
    • Massage (DIY, or ask someone who loves you to rub your back)

    So there you go! Lots of ideas. Pick one. Try it out. Then write up a list of more.

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    Make your own Mental Health Kit

    What would you add to the list above?

    To make your own mental health kit, simply make a checklist for yourself, and put it somewhere you can easily find it!

    Some people even fill a box with mental health kit items to help themselves on down days, such as tea bags, art supplies, cute toys, pictures, lotion, aromatherapy, etc.

    If you’re feeling down, and the weather is not helping, I feel for you. I suggest stimulating your mind. It works well for me 🙂

    Sincerely,

    Erienne
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  • Recover from Crying

    I just cried.Like, a lot…And I might cry again!Any second now… here it comes… watch out!What is going on??? That’s right! You guessed it! I’m having a crying jag. And all I want to do is stop crying.

    What do I mean by a “Crying Jag?”

    Oh, a crying jag is a lovely emotional state. Also known as bawling, weeping, sobbing, blubbering, wailing, grieving, crying, or mourning.Familiar with the sensation?I like to describe it as crying my eyes out. Because I seriously think they might pop out out of my head. It is that serious.You know the drill. Once you get started, you practically can’t stop. The tears keep flowing. I personally make pitiful sounds that never end – boo hoo hoo hoo hoo. My face begins to resemble a ripe tomato. Nerves get all twitchy. Breathing is rapid and gasp-y. And everything and anything seems to make me cry more!My ability to function? That’s gone. The feels have taken over!Here’s how I make it stop.
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    Luckily, I know a few tricks. Just like How I Cure Migraine Pain Naturally, I have a painkiller-free plan that works: A way to get myself out of this particularly deep state of languishing. Yup, I have figured out how to stop crying (thank goodness!).Here is how I return to a more normal, comfortable state of breathing, thinking, seeing, talking, and overall facial complexion.(Because at this point, I’m crying about the fact that I’m crying. FML.):

    Stop Crying Step #1: Drink Peppermint Tea

    Omg have you tried this??Peppermint tea will un-swell your face lightning quick.Peppermint tea is able to do this because it is anti-inflammatory. Drinking something anti-inflammatory will physically counteract your inflammation reflex. This is the reflex that makes you puffy, swollen, red, constricted, and achy. It makes me feel like my blood is pounding in my head, face, eyes, pillow, etc.As soon as you realize you’re in stuck in a crying loop, do the following:
    1. Fill a tea kettle with water and set it to boil.
    2. Pick your favorite mug or teapot.
    3. Open up a bag of peppermint tea. Smell it, if your nostrils will allow. It is lovely: somehow soothing and sharp at the same time! Ahh.
    4. Place the tea bag in mug or teapot. Top with boiling water.
    5. Sit down with your face over the cup so the steam flows onto your distraught visage.
    6. Wait 5 mins. Take some slow deep breaths of the steam.
    7. Remove the bag. Your tea is now ready to enjoy!
    8. Take a sip. Adjust the temp. If the tea is too hot to drink, add a splash of cold water or an ice cube.
    9. Drink it slow and feel your swelling go down, breathing stabilize, nostrils open, and redness dissipate!
    10. Sit in awe of this wonderful drink.
    Seriously effing amazing.TIPS:
    1. Here’s my current favorite Peppermint Tea.
    2. Peppermint tea is lovely with any type of milk.
    3. Any anti-inflammatory tea will do. I’m also a big fan of turmeric tea with honey, lemon, and black pepper.

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     Stop Crying Step #2: Lightly Stretch your Body

    You probably don’t want to move. But you wouldn’t you like to stop crying and feel human again? This helps a lot and works AMAZINGLY well.
    1. Stand up
    2. Stretch your neck
    3. Roll your shoulders
    4. Arch your back all around
    5. Grab one foot at a time for a nice thigh stretch.
    6. Lunge to get your calves.
    7. Roll each foot in a circle – clockwise and counter-clockwise.
    8. Stretch or massage anything else that feels good!
    Voila! Now you’re standing, and even have control of your body. Aw, look at you! 🙂

    Stop Crying Step #3: Move your (newly stretched) Body

    For me, nothing resets me from crying my effing eyes out like getting my blood pumping.Working out stops the crying wheel because you’re giving your body new bio-feedback.You’re actually creating new signals to your body that say: “Hey! Time to regulate a different system!”For real, I’ll do this even if I’m still crying like boo hoo hoo hoo. And by the time I’m done, I feel so much better.Some options:
    1. Pick a short workout video on youtube. Jump around to a flamboyant dance routine, get your pilates on, or see how many situps you can do.
    2. Go walk around the block. The fresh air, new sights, and rhythm of your body will all transport you to another set of feels.
    3. Do some cardio, like run or ride your bike. Hey, if you expend your energy exercising, maybe you won’t have any left over for crying. (?)
    Best part? Now you can feel good that you exercised. Yes, this counts as exercise. And under tough conditions, too!You’re a major boss.

    Stop Crying Step #4: Do your Favorite Thing

    Okay, now that you’ve taken a bit of advice from me, it is time to follow your own too.What do you usually do to help yourself feel better? What is it?Do a bit of that. Go to sleep. Read a book. Eat some ice cream. Or binge watch that one show. Maybe you get some weird joy from organizing your spice cabinet, or throwing empty cans at a wall?Whatever it is, just do it. You’ll feel better.Obviously, I’m not judging.(Please try not to end up in jail tho. Or run up a huge bill. Or hurt yourself. You know what I mean. Oh, you won’t do those things? Okay, thanks yay!)

    It won’t last forever

    It won’t last forever. And then we’ll laugh about it together. I’m so proud of you. Good luck and breathe. You got this.?Sincerely,Erienne Dr. Erienne Weine
    P.S. Share this post with your fellow cryers. 🙂Messed up gift idea: Gift a friend Peppermint Tea. If you happen to show up at their door weeping, they’ll have a cure. ;P


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  • Listen to Your Intuition

    Mystical pursuits are cool because they can help you increase intuition, cultivate your mental health, and reach higher levels of consciousness.

    Here I provide a brief introduction to the top 3 mystical pursuits. Then I show you the rockstars who are creating must-see content in this exciting realm. Enjoy:

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    Horoscopes

    Horoscope Popularity

    Horoscopes have become incredibly popular in the last few years. Have you noticed too? In addition to seeing constellations and words like “Capricorn” and “Gemini”  printed on everything from shirts to plates, I think this trend of astrological exploration is going to continue to expand. Here are a few such avenues, along with some great resources for learning about each.

    I bet you know your “sign.” Awesome! Well, there is so much more the zodiac can help you understand about yourself (and it’s amazing)!

    Moon in a misty sky: Introduction to mystical pursuits 2018
    Moon sign

    Your moon sign is where the moon was when you were born. Knowing the sign of your moon is just like knowing your type of subconsciousness. Check out your moon sign to gain insight into how you mentally process things, how you deal with past hurts, your relationship to your dreams, and how you choose to use your intuition. Pretty cool.

    And that’s just one of many things the zodiac can shine a little more light on!

    Rising Sign
    Your rising sign is the zodiac house that was on the horizon when you were born. This can tell you about how other people see you from a distance. Ever feel misunderstood, or like people judge you incorrectly? Your rising sign can help shed light on this, and give you the tools to smooth over perception snags.

    Here are a few astrologers dedicated to the craft of communicating the planets’ effect on us, whose predictions are spot-on.

    Chani Nicholas

    Omg. She’s JUST. SO. GOOD! Chani explains why reading your rising sign is super helpful. She offers WOKE horoscopes touching on current political and social issues. And she makes her own imagery (which is AMAZING). Hop on her newsletter and regret it never.

    The Astrotwins

    Literally, twins who read horoscopes. They are hilarious. And comprehensive. I have their app, which offers daily, weekly, and monthly horoscopes. But they also have so many amazingly revealing articles on their site. These two also love to cover unconventional horoscope topics (such as fashion, hair, and wellness trends). Check out their amazing and prolific perspective.


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    Tarot

    What is Tarot?

    This is a fun predictive card game. Each card has a life theme on it. You ask an open-ended question, draw a card using your intuition, then look up the meaning of your card for some insight. I find it a stress-free way of gaining new perspectives on issues in my life that are foggy. Its one of the mystical pursuits that anyone can do, because there’s always an instruction manual to help you interpret the cards.

    Fun ways to Tarot
    • Gift yourself a deck
    • Get a professional reading
    • Draw one Tarot card for yourself every day
    • Incorporate Tarot into your next bff gathering
    The Wild Unknown Tarot Deck
    The Wild Unknown tarot Deck by Kim Krans

    Created by Kim Krans, this is a super-inspiring deck by an intuitive artist. Each card is a work of art. And the simple but powerful card explanations will make you want to read Tarot all night long.

    The Starchild Tarot

    Mystical Pursuit: Tarot. Image of tarot card from StarchildtarotThese cards are a is a visual sonnet. Seriously breathtaking. Do your eyes a favor and peek at Danielle Noel’s beyond-gorgeous cards.

    Palm Reading

    Ever had your palm read?  Most professional readers will give you lots of insightful information about yourself and your life. This may be a year you decide to get a palm reading just for fun!

    The type of palm reading I think will be big in 2018 tho, is self palm reading. That’s right! Reading your own palm. Here are the 3 basic lines.

    Love line
    The most popular of lines for a reason, your love line stretches from underneath your pinkie finger over toward your pointer and middle fingers. My favorite thing to read on the love line? Which finger does it point to?
    Middle finger: You tend to care most about making the other person happy in the relationship.
    Pointer finger: You don’t see the point of relationships that don’t bring you joy.

    Line split or in the middle: You’re flexible.

    Head Line

    The line of mental strength, stability, and change. The beginning of your life starts under your pointer finger, then moves toward the side of your hand (under the pinkie). Most head lines extend to underneath the ring finger, which is toward your later life years. Check out variations in depth. This helps show when you get most interested in mental activities in your life. You can also track lines off-shooting from your head line to other lines to see things you might be thinking about!

    Life Line
    This one wraps widely around your thumb! Excitingly, this line won’t tell you how long you’ll live. Sigh. Rather, it indicates the quality of your life. (Deeper is higher quality, more balanced.) The beginning of life is in between your thumb and pointer finger, and the line extends in time down toward your wrist.

    There you go! You’re a beginner palm reader!

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    Palm reading for beginners

    Palm reading: The basics by Lauren Conrad. Click the image to visit her site!Lauren Conrad has an excellent article on palm reading for beginners. If this piques your interest a little, I invite you to check it out!

    As with all mystical pursuits, there is a lot of variety in interpretation. Everyone agrees about the basics. But the deeper interpretation is in the mind of the beholder. So, if you’re reading your own palm, then go with what feels right in your gut. Discard what feels fake.

    The ultimate guide to palmistry

     For palm reading, the only thing I truly trust is what I call THE TEXTBOOK (because it is 500+ pages and written by two lifetime professional palm readers). The Art and Science of Hand Reading by Ellen Goldberg and Dorian Bergen was just published in 2016 and I’m obsessed.

    It’s 2018: Be a little mystical!

    So go ahead and try something here that resonates with you! I hope you find some inspiration in your own mystical pursuits.

    Lots of Celestial Love,

    Erienne
    Fresh Philosopher

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